Tips Travelling Alone as a Female

A year ago, if you asked 19 year old me if I would be okay to flying to another country by myself, I would probably laugh uncomfortably and pale at the idea. I wasn’t even comfortable with getting the train to London without going with some friends. So, it’s amazing I’ve travelled solo to three different countries in the past six months though at some points arranging to meet or stay with friends who I knew were there, but still it was a huge milestone for me. I finally felt like an adult.

Travelling solo is scary itself. Especially as a female travelling alone, it can seem like there are twice as many obstacles, fears, issues etc to be apprehensive of. That shouldn’t stop you from travelling though. The first step is to book that flight to your dream destination! Or just a neighbouring country.

And while I don’t have an extensive list of countries I’ve travelled to, here are some tips I’ve picked up on my recent trips which might be helpful for someone reading this who feels daunted by the idea, like I did a year ago.

If you want to be cautious, I’d recommend making multiple printed and digital copies of important documents of things like your passport, insurance, accommodation receipt, driver’s license. You never know if your luggage gets stolen or looted. Also, having on hand embassy information, and all your contacts printed in case you lose your phone. It’s so easy to get pickpocket while you’re out and about especially in a foreign environment where you stand out. Better safe than sorry, right?

As a solo traveller, you’re responsible for your own activities. I prefer to plan and organise exactly what I plan on doing so that I make full use of my time. I’m not really those people who just chill at the beach all day. Something you want to do in particular? Find out how to get there, if you need a taxi, what time it opens etc. You don’t want to get there and feel lost or it being closed because you didn’t realise it was a public holiday. You can do this in the months or weeks before your holiday just by watching travel videos on YouTube or seeing who else went there on Instagram.

I really recommend staying at a hostel! I stayed at a hostel in my first couple of days in Thailand before moving to another accommodation. This was a great idea as I met some lovely people who showed me around, invited me with them to some of their activities, ate with me etc. Travelling solo does not necessarily mean you need to be alone the whole time. Hostels are great because they are usually filled with people from around the world who also want to explore the country you’re at. Some of the people you meet on your travels can become really good friends and I’ve kept in contact with most of the people via social media. Hostels are also usually the most budget friendly accommodation you can find so it’s win-win.

Another lesson I picked up is don’t smile at strangers but always make eye contact. This makes you seem look more confident and sure of yourself, and less of a target. I felt that after smiling at someone passing (men usually) it just becomes awkward because they will approach you and start bothering you. Though for me, it’s natural and polite to smile and look welcoming however I quickly learnt to not do that because strange people take it as the wrong way.

A couple other tips are:

  • Having your google map of the area downloaded so you can access it offline.
  • Separate all your valuables and money so it’s not all in one place.
  • Don’t forget to bring a lock for your locker if you’re staying at a hostel.
  • Join travel group on Facebook where you can ask for suggestions or help etc
Hope these helped! I feel like I could write a book but this blog post is already long enough as it is haha. Maybe I’ll make a part 2? Let me know what you think you. Do you have any tips? Or had an experience that you want to share? The comments are open! Spill away.

59 Comments

  1. December 7, 2018 / 12:24 pm

    These are all very useful tips! I’ve never travelled solo so far but I can be a very good experience actually.

    xx Simone
    Little Glittery Box

    • Asha
      Author
      December 7, 2018 / 4:58 pm

      It’s definitely an experience you need! Glad you liked the tips, Simone!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 7, 2018 / 5:00 pm

      Europe is lovely! Thanks for reading, Kath!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 7, 2018 / 4:59 pm

      Thanks Rach 🙂

    • Asha
      Author
      December 7, 2018 / 4:59 pm

      Ah, thank you so much Jess!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 7, 2018 / 5:00 pm

      No problem Ana! Glad you liked it!

  2. December 7, 2018 / 5:14 pm

    Nice tips and blog!
    I don’t like to travel alone..:-( 😀

    • Asha
      Author
      December 7, 2018 / 7:21 pm

      I’d give it a go! But also travelling with friends is just as much fun, of course. Thanks for reading!

  3. December 7, 2018 / 8:31 pm

    great tips, thanks 🙂

    • Asha
      Author
      December 8, 2018 / 3:13 am

      Thanks for reading, Camy!

  4. December 8, 2018 / 2:16 am

    You are very brave to have traveled so young by yourself! At your age no way would I have attempted that, be proud of yourself! You have shared some great travel tips here lovely! Amazing post Asha xx

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    • Asha
      Author
      December 9, 2018 / 3:02 am

      Thank you for reading, Ana! Your comment is really kind 💛

  5. December 8, 2018 / 9:40 am

    I never gone for a solo drive and your tips will be my mind as impressive advice, thank you for the post.

    • Asha
      Author
      December 9, 2018 / 3:04 am

      Glad to hear ! Thanks

    • Asha
      Author
      December 9, 2018 / 3:03 am

      Thank you 🙂

    • Asha
      Author
      December 9, 2018 / 3:04 am

      Ah, I get the scared feeling! Just for it though! Glad you enjoyed it!

  6. December 9, 2018 / 6:58 pm

    The scary part for me is being completely alone.. cause it’s “normal” to make friends while you travel but it’s not as easy for everyone to be social and outgoing.
    If you find awesome people to hang with, then your trip will be a blast.

    • Asha
      Author
      December 9, 2018 / 8:19 pm

      Great point, Thomas! Totally agree, that’s why I feel like travelling solo is great for introverts because it helps bring them out of their shell. Thanks for reading!

  7. December 10, 2018 / 11:01 am

    Good tips !!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 10, 2018 / 12:57 pm

      Glad you enjoyed reading, Kinga!

  8. December 10, 2018 / 11:29 am

    Congratulations on all of these solo travels! Very impressive. Love the idea of downloading the map for when you won’t have service – genius!

    xx http://www.qustomquinns.com/blog

    • Asha
      Author
      December 10, 2018 / 12:58 pm

      Thank you!! And honestly, that tip saved me so many times haha

  9. December 10, 2018 / 12:42 pm

    These are great tips! It’s so important that we be very mindful of our surroundings and don’t get too caught up in too much fluff especially on our phones! I love the quote about just because you got there alone doesn’t mean to have to stay alone the whole trip. A hostel is a great way to make some friends!

    Sydney
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    • Asha
      Author
      December 10, 2018 / 12:58 pm

      Ah, thank you for reading Sydney! I appreciate it!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 11, 2018 / 5:52 am

      2019 maybe? haha thanks for reading!

  10. December 10, 2018 / 6:42 pm

    Thank you so much for the great tips! I’ve never traveled alone but if I do in the future this will be really helpful.

    x Kara | http://karascloset.net

    • Asha
      Author
      December 11, 2018 / 5:52 am

      Great to hear!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 11, 2018 / 5:53 am

      Thanks Zorica!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 11, 2018 / 11:28 am

      Thank Radi! I feel like it’s good sometimes to do something that scares you! You never know if you actually end up enjoying it haha

  11. December 11, 2018 / 12:24 pm

    You are really experienced! As I also travelled already alone I know how important your tips are!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
    http://www.dressedwithsoul.com

    • Asha
      Author
      December 11, 2018 / 12:59 pm

      Thanks for reading! 🙂

  12. December 11, 2018 / 3:27 pm

    Thank you for these amazing tipps.
    I never traveled alone, because I was afraid.
    But I hope to do it one day too.
    Thank you for these lovely impressions 🙂

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    • Asha
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      December 16, 2018 / 12:03 pm

      Sorry, I just saw your comment. I hope you get to experience it one day too!

  13. Kate
    December 11, 2018 / 8:39 pm

    These are such good tips! As you say, it can feel like an intimidating thing to do but it shouldn’t stop us from having adventures! x

    Kate Louise Blogs

    • Asha
      Author
      December 14, 2018 / 7:43 am

      Thanks so much Kate 🙂

    • Asha
      Author
      December 16, 2018 / 12:03 pm

      Thanks Christina!

  14. December 12, 2018 / 7:19 am

    Thanks for the great tips. I traveled alone once, but it was a short trip. I’m sure these will be great if I ever need/want to take another.

    Kathrin | Polar Bear Style

    • Asha
      Author
      December 14, 2018 / 7:44 am

      For sure 🙂

    • Asha
      Author
      December 16, 2018 / 12:04 pm

      No problem Isha

    • Asha
      Author
      December 14, 2018 / 7:44 am

      Thanks Ashley!! 🙂

  15. December 13, 2018 / 6:23 am

    Traveling alone can be scary but it can be freeing. Once you travel alone, you won’t stop traveling

    • Asha
      Author
      December 14, 2018 / 7:43 am

      For sure! Love that! Thanks for reading!

    • Asha
      Author
      December 14, 2018 / 7:43 am

      🙂

  16. April 5, 2019 / 12:03 pm

    Such an inspiring post! Great job, I also discover another myself when I travelled alone to London in a new family and a new school to learn the language. Such a difference in my life since that. We are more that we think 🙂
    xx Dasynka
    http://dasynka.com

    • Asha
      Author
      May 9, 2019 / 9:39 am

      Ah glad you enjoyed my post! Enjoy your future travels! x

  17. May 11, 2019 / 12:16 pm

    Travelling alone is more difficult than travelling with others, but at times, especially during those times when you don’t know what to do with yourself or your life, travelling alone becomes absolutely necessary.

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